From observation, I have learned that many of relationships have a similar cycle.
Person feels lonely and wants companionship.
Person finds a person that's compatible (usually temporary based)
They begin a relationship; in love with the concept of being in love with that person
Time passes
They fall out of love and begin to find new interest
They break up and possibly move to the next interest.
And it continues...
And probably has a sexual relations
That can cause a love child
And create a faulty marriage
Which send the kids the wrong message
And they follow the cycle
Then they grow up and the parents divorce
While the child has continued the cycle...
I think today we have become to shallow looking for something that entertains us. Its like a cat with yarn, its fun at first, but we begin to find problems with it and instead of working at it, we let it go and move to the new interest with the same formula. You follow the same procedure, expect the same results right? Then why do we accept it? Why do we have such a low tolerance in what we take in relationships? I will stop there so you can...
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ReplyDeleteyou are absolutely right. people accept it because today where the female to male ratio is so high, it's the best that one can do to not be lonely. loneliness is not fun whatsoever, while some are able to tolerate it, others struggle with it. so people believe that it is easier to stick it out than change their relationship patterns. that's like asking why people stay in loveless marriages it's because they don't want to be lonely and also some might believe that's it's cheaper to keep their significant other rather than go through all the drama and financial problems. but those are just my thoughts and opinions on the situation.
ReplyDeleteI already discussed about this topic with couple of friends. To stay with the same partner means to fight for continued love: take care of the person we love, but not only at Christmas or on Valentine´s day. Today people really have the chance to look around, find another partner very quickly: few of them might decide them to change the way they live... It´s much easier for them. Even if they are married. Look at today´s children and ask them, how many parents are divorced and you might be very suprised: 50% depending on the region. Poeple became more egoistic. By the way, it is mostly better to have the parents getting divorced before they begin to fight for the children.
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